After 15 years of marriage, we almost lost it all.

My husband and I had mastered the art of looking like a happy couple and family while in reality we were broken and on the verge of divorce.

My husband found me on the floor of my closet crying, consumed with sadness, regret, shame, anger, and resentment, feeling like my marriage was over, and then it happened…

For the next 24 hours, we took turns releasing our fears, opening up our hearts, humbling our pride, and forgiving the unforgivable.

I had spent years in counseling & therapy and nothing came close to this kind of revelation! But now what?

What do couples do when they’re ready for a new start, want to rebuild their marriage but don’t know how?

So I quit my career and studied Marriage Counseling, Art of Communication, Temperament Training, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Emotive Reactive Behavior Therapy, Leadership Training, Biblical Studies, and Trauma Recovery.

I wanted to understand him, understand myself, know why our marriage fell apart and how to rebuild something unbreakable.

We implemented steps I’d been taught and created a plan with the steps that worked while dismissing anything that didn’t.

We focused only on what mattered and stopped bringing up the past. 

I thought it would take forever to rebuild our marriage but once we implemented a few steps, we established a completely new connection and immediately started fighting for the same goal. This became our new way of fighting.

For the last 5 years, I’ve been working with women and couples, implementing these steps, and seeing amazing transformations. 

Last year we celebrated 22 years of marraige. The best part is, as we grew closer, so did our children. Our home, once a toxic and hostile environment, is now full of laughter, love, friendship, and God.