After 15 years of marriage, we almost lost it all.

For years, my husband and I wore the smile of a happy couple, but behind closed doors, we were breaking. Our marriage looked picture-perfect to everyone else, but the truth was, we were on the edge of divorce.

One day, he found me curled up on the floor of our closet, sobbing, completely undone by sadness, regret, shame, anger, and resentment. I truly believed it was over.

But something miraculous happened that day…

Over the next 24 hours, we dropped our defences. We cried, we listened, we forgave. We said the hard things out loud. We humbled ourselves. And we experienced a kind of breakthrough that years of therapy had never touched.

But that left us with one big question:
Now what?

What do you do when you both want to start over, but have no idea how to rebuild?

That moment became the beginning of a new mission for me. I left my career behind and poured myself into learning everything I could about healing and rebuilding marriage. I studied Marriage Counseling, Communication, Temperament Theory, CBT, ERBT, Biblical Studies, Leadership, and Trauma Recovery—anything that could help me understand why we broke, and how to build something stronger.

We started applying what I learned, filtering out what didn’t serve us, and clinging to what did. We made a new kind of plan, one rooted in grace, truth, and forward momentum. We stopped rehashing the past and started building a future that felt safe, united, and even joyful.

I thought it would take years. But once we committed to the process, everything changed faster than I ever expected. We weren’t fighting each other anymore—we were fighting for the same goal. That changed everything. Even the way we fought looked different.

Now, over five years later, I’ve walked with countless women and couples through their own journeys of heartbreak, healing, and hope. I’ve seen what’s possible when two people are willing to try again, not from the same place, but from a new beginning.

Last year, my husband and I celebrated 25 years of marriage. Our home, once filled with tension and pain, is now filled with laughter, love, friendship, and the unmistakable presence of God.

And that’s what I want for you, too.

Because no matter how broken things feel right now, I promise you this:
There is still hope.
Your story isn’t over. And you don’t have to walk this road alone.